just emailed in:
“Let me be blunt with those who hate the big bad administration.
You knew how GCC was when you applied. Rules exist for a reason. You aren’t always going to get your way. End of story.
Basically, stop complaining about how pathetic your life is because you can’t have the same experience found at a public school, and start focusing on what is great at the college. I loved the article “a few of my favorite things” because rather than being whiney and judgmental about the school, it put a positive spin on GCC. Let’s look at the most fussed about issues at the college:
1.) Alcohol: If you are underage, you shouldn’t be drinking, it’s a law for a reason. If you are legal, go to the BRT. Don’t bring it to campus, don’t get plastered. It’s simple. I’ve seen too many drunken guys and girls coming back from heavy drinking, falling over, vomiting, being slutty (not just women), and making fools of themselves. I don’t give a damn what your reasoning is for drinking, but seriously – it’s not classy to be wasted. Oh, and it’s kind of illegal. No kidding.
2.) Intervis: Having the opposite gender barred from our dorms is SUCH torture, isn’t it? The poor soul who thinks that the college is out to ruin their relationships, friendships, etc. is pathetic. Again – you knew the rule when coming here, don’t think that they are going to change it because you bitch and complain. And let’s be honest, if you want to have sex, you’ll find somewhere. There are at least three hotels out by the Outlets that I can name off the top of my head. Risk-takers will find some remote area to park their car. So if this applies to you, stop saying “I wish I could stay past 12” and use that time to find somewhere else to have your co-ed slumber party. Your roommate will thank you. As for just hanging out together, if that’s all you wanted to do, then why are the lobbies not good enough? Oh, you wanted privacy? Then go to the SAC where no one will be able to hear your conversation anyway. And if you want “cuddle time,” the college has generously provided nice benches placed around campus that are perfect. Grab some coffee and a blanket, and you and your significant other can have a nice evening together chatting it up. And I know a lot of guys and girls are JUST FRIENDS (for some reason that’s a taboo here) and that’s great. But same thing applies – just go to the lobby.
3.) Chapel: Just go. It’s not even worth my time to explain why it’s stupid for you to rally against this one.
4.) Residence Life: Yes, it’s their job to catch you breaking the rules. You may have your candles out, or leave your microwave plugged in over Easter, or sneak some alcohol into your room, and you get busted. Well, genius, that’s your problem for not following very clear, very EASY rules. Do you know how much Grove City would lose if your halogen lamp caught illegal draperies on fire? Let’s do some math: 1 resident hall burns down, say it had 75 rooms, each with two roommates, who pays $21,000 per year. Not only does the school lose that one to two MILLION dollars to replace the building, they lose an additional THREE MILLION in tuition for the next year because they cannot house those students. Plus, God forbid someone gets hurt, there’s another $100,000 per lawsuit filed. RAs and RDs have one of the most critical jobs on campus. Now, some things that are banned seem overwhelming (duct tape on the walls for instance) but they will not just randomly compile a list. Every item has been thoroughly thought about, and everything has a reason. And as for having alcohol in the room, it’s just difficult to deal with drunkards. They are fun to mess with, but nothing else, really.
I suppose that I am a hypocrite for going on my own little rant. However, please people – STOP BEING STUPID. It gets very annoying, very quickly. Gracias.“
….i honestly could not agree more. we’re all here by will. if you don’t like it, feel free to either go away or suck it up and shut up. oh, it is hard to find this balance between discussing controversial issues on campus and bitching and moaning. complaint for the sake of complaint serves no purpose. on the flip side, though, isn’t it important to debate and talk about the things we care about? the things that matter? thank you, ____ for your insight. _elle